This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends. You are my friends if you do what I command you.John 15:12-14
The word love has a flexible usage in American English. It refers to anything from a passionate romantic attachment to a strong fondness for a flavor or aroma.
People use love to describe their feelings for their pet, their children, family, or their spouse. Love might describe an act rooted in compassion or an act stemming from sexual arousal or even a score in a tennis match.
You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.Inigo Montoya
Like I said, it is a very flexible word.
But what does it mean? I guess that’s the problem with English. Love literally means all those things in my native tongue – and more.
"Love is patient and kind...
Even with all this flexibility, we the people still manage to misuse the term. We like to take a word that can perform the grammatical equivalent of a backbend and try to force it into something much more like a Gordian knot.
"love does not envy or boast ...
For example, much of what is perpetrated in the name of love today would be more accurately termed indulgence or indifference. And if we’re brutally honest, sometimes we (myself included) use the word love as a neat slight of hand to cover our own laziness or fear of confrontation.
"it is not arrogant or rude ...
But perhaps the most gruesome twisting of this word comes when it’s applied in the name of my Lord to condone behaviors He actually gave His life to save us from. Or in plain terms, when sin is not only tolerated but celebrated and this celebration is called love.
"Love does not insist on its own way ...
The truth is, sin is serious business. Deadly serious. And Jesus died to set us free from it. Not so we could run straight back into its often inviting – but always lethal – embrace.
"it is not irritable or resentful...
Actual love should desire the best situation possible in the long term for the beloved, not just his or her short-term pleasure.
"Love does not rejoice at wrongdoing...
For example, loving my children means laboring to instill a good work ethic into them both by example and by correcting laziness when it shows – even though it may be easier for me (and more fun for them) if I allowed their lives to be a nonstop Netflix and video gaming binge.
"But rejoices with the truth." - 1 Corinthians 13:4-6
However, entertainment consumption never pays the bills, so if I take the easy route here and allow my kids a permanent pass on homework and chores, I’m actually inflicting damage by helping form habits and addictions that will hurt them in the long run.
Whoever loves pleasure will be a poor man…Proverbs 21:17a
Now take that one example and magnify it into a thousand careless acts of selfishness which impact eternity. Or maybe just imagine a couple thousand years, because eternity is too mind-bogglingly long to grasp. Which would you rather have: 80 years of fun and games followed by 1920 of agony? Or the reverse with unbounded joy tacked on for good measure?
And how many of us truly have agony for all our years? Few indeed, though even then, eternal joy would be worth it.
Now if we really believe what Jesus says, that He alone is the Way, the Truth, and the Life; and if we honestly love others, we’ll not only tell them about the glorious freedom from sin and eternal life He offers; we will behave as though we believe it, too.
2 thoughts on “Love: You Keep Using That Word…”
Great post, Heather. It’s so true. True love is shown in God and Jesus’s life sacrificed for us. And btw – I loved your post. =)
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Lol!! Love it 😉