Renovation

This is my living room right now:

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You’ll note the assorted pieces of a sleigh bed stashed behind the couch or atop the dog crate, the random rolled-up rug, my messy desk devoid of my photo processing desktop computer, the filing cabinet adorned with two lamps, and so on. If you could look to the right, you’d see a couple of dressers, assorted computer parts, a couple of nightstands, and a whole lot of homeless junk.

Not far beyond that lies a room which used to sport yellow and red handprints on a cheerful blue background, custom cabinets filled with curriculum and home school supplies, three desks, and a whiteboard.

Now the walls are muted to a neutral gray, the paint-stained carpet has been replaced with vinyl planking, and the room currently houses the planking and materials for a new flooring project.

I assure you, this is not the normal state of affairs at our home; we are in a state of flux. My husband has a little breather in his crazy work schedule and we are beginning  a long-desired (and possibly long overdue) removal of the carpet in as many places as we can afford.

Why am I telling you this?

I suppose it is metaphorical. My entire life is in the midst of remodeling project.

One week from today, all three of my children will attend the first day at Zion Christian Academy.  In other words, one week from today, I will officially be out of a job.

Naturally, I will still be parenting. I am assured that job has no end; only changing requirements. But for the first time in 16 years, the full-time parenting, shepherding, and educating of my children that is homeschooling will be at an end. We are in a state of total transition.

So what now? I wish I knew.

Just as this shuffling of furniture brings about much reorganizing and re-evaluating of possessions, so also I am finding myself sorting through many familiar habits and routines and trying to discern which ones will need to stay and which need to be tossed. Some I know must stay – my time with God, my study of His Word; these are non-negotiable. Others, well… we shall see.

Also, as the gutting of rooms brings many discoveries – some of great value like a letter to me from one of the kids when they were young; some less wonderful, like the cigarette butt left beneath the carpet by the builders – so I am finding many discoveries beneath the surface of my life.

Some are bittersweet – an increased intentionality in my time with the kids as the quantity of time together naturally diminishes. Still, each precious moment with my brood is so much sweeter even as they become more rare, so there is great joy.

Other findings are less lovely, like the lack of a college degree coming back to haunt me – the carelessly discarded stub of a reckless and wasted youth buried for years beneath the duties of a homeschool mom.

So today at the age of 43, I am sifting through the topsy-turvy assortment of abilities and desires that have shaped my life, evaluating them for usefulness during this next season, exposing them to my God for examination, and seeking His help in deciding what to keep and what to discard.

At this crossroads, I do not know which direction to take. Until I do, I will simply stand, prayerfully exploring my options and ready to obey once the order is given. It is a season of transition; a humbling time of reckoning for past decisions and a painful exercise in trusting God to reveal His purposes for me. During it all, I doggedly cling to the promise that His grace is sufficient for me even as I survey the wreckage necessary for renovation.

And I praise Him that no matter how crazy or hopeless things look to me now, the work He is doing will be well worth it in the end. Just like our new floors.

But if we hope for what we do not see, we wait for it with patience. Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words…

…And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.

Romans 8:25-26, 28

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6 thoughts on “Renovation

  1. Heather, I smiled, as I read, having gone through the two different renovations you speak of, many times; looking back and looking forward for each new one in which we rejoice with the Father, Son and Holy Spirit as they continue to delight in their work. Blessings as you wait, hope and experience what He is doing in your life to prepare you for eternity with Him. Blessings for your husband and your children in their new experiences, too. 🙂

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    1. Thank you so much, Frances! This means a lot to me. I so value all the people God has put around me, both physically and “virtually,” and maybe especially those like you who have gone before me and can share the wisdom they have gained. ❤

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      1. Heather, it is a joy to encourage those who come after us (in age) to know some of what our heavenly Father has prepared for us, making us to know that all we go through is leading us homeward. Truly His glory is greater than our sufferings, so that we can rejoice always, pray continually, and be thankful in all circumstances, knowing this is His will for us in Christ Jesus our Lord.

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  2. You’re not going to regret ripping out that carpet for wood floors! That was one of the best remodelling decisions we made in our home! As for the changes in your family situation, I pray that the Lord would be your strength and comfort during this time of transition, and that he would kindle in you a new vision of how you can best serve him in the future. And don’t worry about your children. You gave them a good foundation; they will do fine!

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    1. Thank you! We did decide to go with vinyl planking rather than wood for various reasons. Although it will take a while to do it all, I look forward to getting rid of the last of our carpet! I appreciate your prayers, too. I sure do need wisdom for what’s next. 🙂

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